The Comfort Zone: Is It Really Better the Devil You Know Tan the Devil You Don´t?

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The popular saying implies that it is better to deal with someone or something familiar than to deal with what you do not know because it might be worse.

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I understand that there’s always an element of risk when one tries new experiences, but to me, the saying sounds more like an invitation. An invitation to stay in the (in)famous comfort zone.
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Infidelity – is it really such a disaster for the relationship?

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Recently I have been discussing this topic with many of my friends and some of my clients and, honestly, I don’t have a definite opinion about it. Maybe it will be disappointing for you, but I really can’t give general advice on infidelity, since the reasons for it are so broad. Each case is so unique, unique like the personalities of the people who are involved in it. Nevertheless, I’d like to share some thoughts about this unpleasant experience.

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First of all I wonder if there are still people who believe in everlasting love. Call me a cynic but I am convinced that it is just a childish illusion. On the other hand cheating could be very hurtful for your partner and totally unnecessary if you are in a healthy relationship.

Is cheating a big deal or just an insignificant obstacle for the good relationship?
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