There’s a particular kind of pain that defies easy description. Not the sharp sting of a cut or the dull ache of a bruise, but the hollow, gnawing distress that floods your chest when you’re separated from someone you love.
Whether it’s your child’s first day of school, a partner traveling for work, or the end of a relationship—this pain is real, visceral, and rooted deep in your mammalian brain.
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There is a fantasy that haunts us—the fantasy of the unified self.
We imagine that somewhere beneath all our contradictions, all our competing desires and impulses, there exists a coherent “I” pulling the strings.
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We are our own worst masters.
This is the uncomfortable truth that haunts our age of endless optimization, relentless self-improvement, and the incessant pursuit of productivity. Continue reading
To walk through life as an atheist is to carry the burden of both freedom and fragility. There is no script, no grand design to follow—only the choice to create purpose and hold onto what is beautiful, even as the inevitability of loss whispers in the background.
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Do you really need to overcome envy? Here, I want to give you something that could be more useful the next time you’re feeling envious.
Envy is at its core feeling sorrow about not having what somebody else has. Continue reading
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Do you have dreams? Little dreams big dreams, fantasies, plans, hopes, passions?
People often assume that some dreams are difficult (or impossible) to fulfill because they lack something – talent, ambition, or financial means. But what are the real obstacles? Continue reading
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The era of instant gratification brought us a new plague – the illusion that one can make choices without experiencing life.
Listening to the people who come to my practice, I realize that there is a great fear of time-wasting. Continue reading
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My male friends and counseling clients often ask me what women want during sex. Well, telling just one thing is like claiming that there is one sexual position that is simply the best. It’s not that simple!
But then again, some men are just better lovers. What makes them good? Well, here are a few points that could shine light on this topic:
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Let’s face the truth: there are no perfect people, and even if there were any, we would hate their guts. Do you feel irritated when someone constantly tries to seem perfect?
Perfectionism related to appearance, knowledge, abilities, etc. is often off-putting. Nevertheless, envy is not the reason why we find it alienating. Continue reading
