3-minute read
Do you really need to overcome envy? Here, I want to give you something that could be more useful the next time you’re feeling envious.
Envy is at its core feeling sorrow about not having what somebody else has. Continue reading
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“Being Good In Bed” – What Does It Even Mean?!?
6 min read
My male friends and counseling clients often ask me what women want during sex. Well, telling just one thing is like claiming that there is one sexual position that is simply the best. It’s not that simple!
But then again, some men are just better lovers. What makes them good? Well, here are a few points that could shine light on this topic:
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The Comfort Zone: Is It Really Better the Devil You Know Tan the Devil You Don´t?
3 min read
The popular saying implies that it is better to deal with someone or something familiar than to deal with what you do not know because it might be worse.
I understand that there’s always an element of risk when one tries new experiences, but to me, the saying sounds more like an invitation. An invitation to stay in the (in)famous comfort zone.
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The Art Of Building Boundaries
3-minute read
I am not sure if there are many skills in interpersonal communication as important as the art of establishing your own physical and mental territory – probably there aren’t. Establishing boundaries is a fundamental part of the development of every healthy relationship in your life.
But what exactly is “establishing boundaries” and why do I call it art?
You Don’t Have To Be A Hero All The Time
4 minute read
Have you ever wondered why some people maintain relationships with friends or lovers who are just incapable of taking care of themselves.
Everyone is conscious that this relationship has no future because such people drag you down, nevertheless there are some people who decide to sacrifice themselves for the others, even though they don’t deserve it.
Plan B – How Strategic Thinking Shapes Your Success
5 minute read
Have you ever wondered why faith is nicer to some people and constantly neglects others. Maybe even your personal plans sometimes fail and it makes you think that life isn’t fair. What’s really the problem with faith?
There is no problem!
If It Hurts, You Are Not Doing It Right
Today I heard a very passionate confession about love. In summary it said that if it is true, it always hurts. When it is mutual, it hurts because you just care so much about the other person, when it is not – it hurts like hell for obvious reasons. Everything that your partner do could be a source of pain no matter if it is intentional or not, longing for someone hurts, separation hurts, breaking up hurts a lot etc, etc. And the guy, who told it, truly believed that you should be crazy to do it this to yourself.
No, no, no! You’ve got it all wrong! If it hurts so much you aren’t making it right. Love and affection is not a continuous source of pain or at least it is not supposed to be. Even if you look at it from evolutionary perspective. There can’t be a feeling that we all feel but it is completely useless because it makes us vulnerable and weak all the time.